Today we want to talk about how to stop caring what people think of you.
If you have been trying to get people to see that you are happy and having success but constantly get negative feedback either on social media, at your job, or even in your own home then this post is for you.
No matter what you do in life you will have some hater trying to tell you that you can’t do something or they will say harsh words to put your self-esteem down. If you are happy and successful and proud to do what you do then stop worrying what people think of you.
Watch this video
How To Stop Caring What People Think Of You Video Recap by Ace and Rich
Rich says, “This is what happens when things start to turn around, the moment you stick to your guns and you don’t care anymore about what people think about you this is when things start to happen. You start to grow this hard skin we call it “Skin Like A Rhino”.
Why because once you grow this thick skin it is not going to matter what anyone says about you it would just be bounced off. See in the beginning you start with a soft shell but once you become seasoned then your skin will become thicker and thicker.
Anastacia “Ace” says, ” As I started trying to make a name for myself and build my own brand I thought it would be cool to share the good news with my friends and family members what journey I was about to take. The moment I mentioned I was getting involved in a work at home business activity they said such awful comments and tried to put me and my dreams down.
It really hurt especially coming from my own parents who I thought would support my dreams and goals really didn’t want me to work for myself they rather I go work at a corporate job till I live the “American Dream”.
Well you know what, I said to my friends and family I love you and care about you but I got to think about myself and my own dreams right now. Yes I will be in business for myself, of course it will take money and lots of time but I just want you to know that I’m going to make this happen with or without you.
That is the mindset you have to have and the posture to show to your haters so they can respect you. Don’t let anyone rent space in your head and you become a victim of jealously.
If you look at the most successful people and leaders around the world they have their own haters and you know how they handle haters?
They just laugh at them and keep doing what they do.
How To Stop Caring What People Think Of You | Final Thoughts
Let’s face it the world has haters for a reason, without them we wouldn’t have the need to improve ourselves. If you plan on being successful then plan on having a bunch of haters come along with it.
You will learn and develop skills that will help you transform your mindset to be strong enough so that when anyone no matter who it is says something or tries to put you down, it will not phase you. Never let anyone deter you from what you are trying to achieve and don’t look for their approval but earn their respect.
See you on the next post!
Anastacia Hauldridge & Rich Guzman